How to Use a Sex Doll the Right Way? Guide for First-Timers

Although a full-sized adult love doll is somewhat big and heavy, it’s not so difficult to use as you might think.

You’ve discovered a new land for sexual pleasure and finally invested in a lifesize love doll from the online  sex doll store. However, when the doll package arrives at your door, what comes to your head first must be the question that most newbies tend to encounter – “how to use a sex doll”.

Not to worry then, this post will guide you through the doll use, with easy instructions so you can play with and maintain your new beautiful love partner like a master.

1. Move the doll box gently to your room with more space

More often, full-sized female and male sex dolls are about 140 – 176cm (4.5 – 5.7ft) in height and weight between 50 and 130 pounds, surely the higher your doll is, the heavier you will get. Plus the package box and other things are attached, in short, it’s not easy to move it around, especially when you are feeble, handicapped, gerontic, or feminine, or there’s no elevator transporting the doll upstairs。

No matter whether the love is packed in a wooden crate or a cardboard box, if you cannot bear the weight, you can have somebody else to help, such as your friends, neighbors, or even the delivery man. Just give them an acceptable item explanation if they ask, and they will never know what’s really inside the crate or box since there’s no doll-related information left or indicated at all.

Please do remember to place the package in a room with more space for more convenient assembling.

2. Unbox the doll package carefully with proper tool

To avoid your new lover being hurt during the unpackaging process, you are suggested to use a small boxcutter or safer rounded-tip scissors to slice through the tape along the center seam. That’s because a bigger or non-rounded-tip one might be pushed quite into the box to scratch the doll.

After the tape is cut perfectly and the box opened, you must be ecstatic about your real doll who’s extremely human-like, gorgeous, and simple-minded.

3. Move products and accessories out of box

Keep calm! It’s not the right time to make your sexual passion alive because some other necessary things are still waiting for you to do.

Now wash your hands and do the very first must-do – getting all items out. Wear the gloves if your doll seller offers free ones to you to prevent the doll’s head and body from being scratched or soiled by your hand. You can keep the box and all of the foams to store your sex doll in the future if you have no other storing options.

Generally, the doll will come with a blanket, please hold the doll’s body out with it onto the floor and get left out of the box at the same time.

4. Inspect the doll in case there’s unexpected quality issue

Next, you need to check out the doll (MOST IMPORTANT) from head to foot and other free giveaways thoroughly. Make sure all body parts are included, all joints are workable right, no abrasions or creases on the skin, and there’s no other damage. If this is a custom sex doll, examine the options one by one according to your order details, which may include but are not limited to skin color, eyes, wig, breasts, public hair style, vagina type, foot type, nail color, etc

Sex dolls are special products, so sex doll companies often set strict return and refund policies. You must check out and report the problem in the given time, e.g within 12-24 hours after signing for the package. Once it’s submitted over time, you won’t get the return or compensation at all.

5. Assemble the love doll by attaching head to body

More often, the doll’s head is separated from its body while shipping. That means it requires you to manually assemble them together for a full-perfect love doll. You can have the doll seated on the blanket, then put the head on carefully.

Currently, there are two mainstream head-to-body attachment methods – screw-on and snap-on connecting.

For a screw-on head, you can hold it with your hands, tilt it and line its bolt up with that of the body. Try to turn it from left to right (in the clockwise direction) to see whether it’s in the right direction. If so, go on with the same action until it’s fixed. If not, turn the head in the opposite direction to have it done in a dozen seconds.

For a snap-on or pop-on head, you only need to line up the head and bolt on body, then press it to have the connection completed.

Once the doll head is attached to the body firmly, you can have the bareheaded doll wigged with prepared hair.

6. Clean the doll before the very first use (optional)

New silicone or TPE sex dolls are not clean as you think since you will have no idea whether there’s chemical residue, restoration powder, or other things left before it goes to your home. Therefore, if you found there’s excess powder, dusk or so, you can do a simple clean before the first time of use: wipe the whole body down with a soft wet washcloth or sponge, pat dry with a towel, then put on proper restoration powder.

7. Dress the doll up with ready clothing and wig

Dressing up brings about more fantasy to the love doll’s enjoyment. But if you didn’t prepare any clothing or custome, the only choice is the lingerie provided by the sex doll company. Another alternative way is to give your white T-shirt a try. If the purchase of the female love doll gets approval from your wife or girlfriend, you can ask her for her dress, bras or sports underwear.

In the long term, you’d better choose and buy more provocative clothes, shoes, wigs, and jewelry in different styles according to the doll’s measurements and most importantly – your taste!

Pay attention to the clothing materials and accessories just in case the doll’s skin gets dyed or hurt.

8. Have available sex with the real doll as you like

Finally, it comes to the most exciting moment. You can have sex with your love doll immediately after completing the tasks listed above.

How to use a sex doll for intercourse? Pose the doll to a preferred position as you wish -> fuck with the lover just like with a real person -> done.

Modern sex dolls are equipped with flexible metal skeletons, and some have articulated fingers, which makes it a piece of cake for you to post your stunning doll ready for your plugging at any position. Examples are doggy or leapfrog style, the scoop me up, face-off, (reverse) cowboy/cowgirl, and the dragon, just to name a few.

Basically, nearly all dolls support vaginal and anal sex while not all are available for oral sex. It depends on what sex doll you paid for. Middle-sized or big boobs make it easier to do titfuck and articulated fingers for hand-fuck.

Extra tips for the sex games:
* Please use lubricants, specifically the water-based lubricants before your sex. You can warm it up with hot water for minutes for a more comfortable feeling.
* Speaking of warmth, it’s also suggestable to warm the sex doll up with given USB heating rod to human temperature.
* Be gentle if possible. Despite the metal skeleton and TPE/silicone material feature bearing your weight, if you push too hard on it or if the doll bears too much, it will cause some injury or to some degree reduce the doll’s longevity.
* You are free to take the lover along with you when you are going on a holiday or on a business trip. If you are going abroad, knowing whether it’s legal or illegal to import or travel with sex dolls is crucial. (See countries where sex dolls are banned/illegal)

9. Clean the sex doll again after use

If you regard the love doll as a partner seriously, you should ensure hygiene.

Firstly, no matter what hole you penetrate, use the dedicated vaginal irrigator to wash it with warm soapy water and rinse inside completely. If it’s a female love doll with a removable vagina or it’s a male sex doll, simply remove the vagina or penis to clean and rinse then pat it dry, then reattach it to the body.

Then, for a full sex doll cleaning, you can lay it down in the bathtub or on the floor with a blanket below, practice sponge bath to your TPE or silicone sex doll with mild soap and water repeatedly until it’s as clean as before. If the doll is not or little dirty, wipe it up with a wet cloth or towel.

Showing a real doll is allowed but more complicated, especially when handling the TPE sex dolls (no high temperature of more than 40 degrees). Also, don’t let the water stream above the neck if the doll is an AI robot love doll or a custom doll with advanced moaning or communication features.

Store the sex doll

Usually, people have two ways to store sex dolls. One is hanging the doll vertically just like in the factory and the other one is lying the doll flat in an appropriate container (such as the package box, luggage case, and custom storage case). Both approaches are OK, however, compared to lying, the hanging method is better because it puts no pressure on the doll’s body to harm the skin or joints.

As for other aspects, sex dolls don’t like too hot or too cold temperatures, places with bad ventilation, long-term direct sunlight.